Jonah's withdrawal from public school is complete and we are officially a
HOMESCHOOL FAMILY
If you would have suggested this is where we would be one year ago I'd have laughed!! FOR REAL. Never in my wildest imagination did I think I would be a homeschool Mom. It really wasn't on my radar at all (despite having made friends with numerous homeschool Mommas the last few years!). So much weirdness has happened in 2020. It's absolutely mind-blowing to think about life as we know it these days. So here we are. A homeschool family. I really want to document our journey to reflect back on in the future so I decided to dust off the old blog and share bits and pieces here and there... when I actually remember to. I've received quite a few questions about our decision and things like the curriculum I chose so I felt like this was a great place to keep everything in one place and refer back to along the way.
Here we go. Our homeschool journey.
What I'm jokingly calling Strickland Academy.
Established 2020-20201 school year.
Jonah is eight years old and just completed first grade in public school.
Sutton is three years old.
THE DECISION
Why?
I want Christ to be at the center of our lessons and the heart of Jonah's education. I want to control WHAT Jonah learns, HOW he learns it and WHO he learns it from. I want flexibility to travel and adventure as a family. I want Jonah to learn as HE learns best- whatever that may look like and have the ability to play and be a curious child while he's a child. I want stability, consistency and safety for Jonah. I want fun, freedom and exploration.
To begin- I feel the need to be 100% transparent. It took MANY months of discussion with Jeremy, specific prayer (this was a big, difficult decision) and a lot of research for me to arrive at this place of peace with transitioning Jonah from public school to homeschool. I really felt like this was what I was being called to do- to homeschool Jonah. And I'm not gonig to lie...in the beginning I felt like it was a firm no. Me being stubborn, as usual....
Honestly I was NOT concerned with academics or the social aspect of being a home-schooled student. Fun fact? I was actually home-schooled! I am fully aware of the benefits of homeschool in terms of academics and I have zero concerns with the "social" aspect of school (that seems to be what naysayers immediately pull from their hat of opinions). So what was it?
Welllllll. It was me being selfish. I'm ashamed to admit it but I knew homeschooling would be a selfless move. Mentally taxing. A giving up of myself somewhat. And giving up any and basically all of the little "me" time that I had while Jonah was at school. In my gut I knew this was 100% the right move for our family and for Jonah but I really struggled with what it looked like for ME. Submitting my will has always been an issue for me. The Lord has gently worked on and in my heart over the last few months and I've arrived at a place of complete peace. And sidenote-in an effort to take care of myself I plan to set aside time each week to continue to be a mentally and physically healthy Momma (because that is ALWAYS what's best for both Mom and kiddos, right?!).
In terms of success- I believe Jonah will thrive with the one on one attention I'll be able to provide for him. He just completed first grade in public school and truly enjoys learning. He's super curious and is just a little sponge at this age (he just turned 8). Honestly switching to virtual learning thru his elementary school as a result of COVID was eye-opening for me! The amount of hours he was actually "learning" at school vs just "being" at school was honestly something I'd never taken a moment to really think about. Over the last size months there have been so many little things and stories Jonah talked about while we were doing the virtual assignments that confirmed homeschool was the best path for not only him but also our family as a whole. So despite the craziness of COVID I'm actually quite thankful for it. It caused me to pause and really investigate how and what I want Jonah (and Sutton!) to learn. That is a huge blessing!
I'm committing to take this one year at a time. Year by year and see how it works for our family.
CURRICULUM
The first question everyone has had is- What curriculum did you decide on?
And this was what I began researching immediately. I immediately took to the internet to find new programs (the ones I used as a student- like Abeka- are still around and I looked into them as well), and chatted with veteran homeschool Mom friends to see what they are currently using and what has and hasn't worked for their kiddos. I am SO THANKFUL for this group of friends that I have. They've been a tremendous blessing to me as I've researched what's best for Jonah.
After several months of research I decided to move forward with The Good and The Beautiful for our inaugural homeschool year. There are TONS of options and SO many great ones to boot. Ultimately I narrowed it down to either Classical Conversations or TGTB. CC isn't off the table completely- I still plan to look into it more and maybe even try portions of it but I decided TGTB worked for my personality and Jonah- for now. The beauty of learning at home is just that. You can revise as you go. If something isn't working you can revise, edit, switch it up. I love that! I'll keep you guys posted once we actually start doing the lessons! Every child and parent is different so I'm keeping an open mind.
I'm still working to decide when we will begin. Our curriculum has just arrived and I'm familiarizing myself with it. I love the freedom this new adventure provides our family with!! Feel free to reach out if you have any questions. I am a complete novice and have so much to learn. I'm incredibly thrilled to be on this new adventure and will share everything I can that's working (or not working!) for us!
xoxo
